Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Letting Go, Acceptance

My MIL is in the anger stage, she lost her husband in October 2008 and is dealing with the anger phase of loss.  I'm dealing with all the things she's angry with, her early childhood, her lack of educational options, her being moved about, her fear  and anger over family members and their credit situation and finally, the anger over her beloved husband's death.  I'd go crazy  if it all weren't so sad.

All I can offer are the same words her husband used in regards to family members, and the fact he loved her and took care of her and the children and always chose to do the best thing in regards to their money, investments, children's welfare, health and education.  He was a very good man and is sorely missed.  He provided a balance to her worry and constant concern and she doesn't have that vent to release with.  And, no she will not go to grief therapy or see someone privately.

Whatever the doctor told her in regards to her and her daughter's health has hit the spot and she has lost weigh and there are no treats in the house.  We will see what happens this Easter weekend.